Community is a big topic in the church these days. The small group movement has been going strong for a long time, and in recent years New Monasticism and intentional communities have sprung up across the country. There are many such communities in the Metro area where I live, and a number of people close to me have been a part of them. The church I go to is a large church, and for a long time they have been trying to figure out how "grow small" with small groups and various forms of community. Like many others, I have assumed that Acts 2:42-47 is the model we should pursue. Recently, I have been re-thinking some of my assumptions on about this. Yes, I said "re-thinking."
As a reminder, let's look at these verses:
And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers. And awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common. And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved. Acts 2:42–47 ESV
What is Community?
Let me clarify what I mean by community. I mean a more than going to watch a ball game, attending church, walking the dog and saying "Hi" to the neighbors, and voting in the elections. By community, I mean a sharing of lives. Community includes family, and it is the people you include when you celebrate graduations and marriages, and when you grieve the loss of a loved one. Community includes the people who tell you what you need to know, even if you do not want to hear it. It can be intentional or spontaneous. It means being available, even if you are busy. Humans need community to be healthy and to grow. In Acts 2, we see community when they share meals together and study the scriptures, and when they sacrifice for each other. Ideally, community is where love is, and scripture tells us that love is perfected as we love one another (1 John 4:12). For Christians, community is a work of the Holy Spirit, as each indwelt believer is united by that same Spirit (Eph. 2:21-22) in the Love of God (John 17:21). I elaborate on the practice of community in the Mission, Vision, and Practices post of this blog. The post on the Practice of Community will provide some of my thoughts on how to do it. Here, I want to reflect on how not to do it, and the challenges of doing it.
Rethinking Community
I said I was rethinking community. The reason is that I have been discovering how hard it is to create community in 21st Century America. As I have attempted community and watch others do community, we have struggled against many of the same things. Recently, I have had a chance to hear about a community in another country that sounds a lot like the Acts 2 church. There are a lot of similarities. Then I started to realize the differences in what we have in America. This caused me to take a fresh look at Acts 2, and as a result, I started to see some things I had not seen before.
1st Century Community
Looking at Acts 2, we see a 1st Century people. Many lacked affluence or were in poverty. There were no governmental social programs. They also grew increasingly isolated as the Jews rejected them, and the Roman Empire started to see them as a threat. Poverty and persecution pushed them together. People also tended to work during the day, so people's schedules were more consistent. Work was also more task oriented. You caught the fish, sold your goods in the market, built a house, shod the horse, harvested the grain, etc. People lived relatively short distances from each other. Finally, Jewish society practiced the Sabbath together consistently. Life might have been hard, but it was simple.
21st Century Community
Contrast this to 21st Century America. While we still have the poor with us, most enjoy a relative affluence. Unlike what the futurists predicted, affluence has not freed us up to have more time for leisure. Instead, people can work potentially around the clock, seven days a week. Our work day is often measured by the hours we work, with a required minimum each week. As a result, it is difficult to find times where people's schedules will allow them to get together. The concepts of leisure and entertainment significantly impact the way we relate to each other, becoming more self-centered. In the last 75 years, with the advent of TV, movies, and the Internet, we have virtually redefined entertainment. There are health clubs, sports activities, outdoor sports and hobbies, indoor hobbies, and many other leisure activities. Let's not forget the family activities: school, sports, etc. Then there is much greater distance between us, making it very difficult to consider anything spontaneous, even with advances in transportation. In the West, for the most part we do not have any type of persecution of the church. Clearly, it is a different world. Can Acts 2 even exists within such a world?
When people consider these things, they look at the simplicity and richness of relationship in the early church, and wonder if we have perhaps lost something. We see the alienation of our culture and the dysfunction of the government social systems, and wonder if perhaps we should be seeking a different way. In all our affluence, should we not be able to again realize what the early church realized when people shared their resources so no one would be in need? How can we return to the times of "home churches" and true community? How do we do community today?
Remember, I said I was re-thinking community. On one hand, many of these above things that keep us busy and distracted can be put aside. Surely, we can choose to live more simply, to share resources, and devote ourselves to the things of the Lord. Yet, I am starting to question my assumptions on how we apply Biblical models from the early to community. It is not always practical, or even possible, to move into close proximity with other believers in our local church. Besides, what is the "church?" Isn't it the spiritual fellowship of all believers? If so, then perhaps we should seek to have fellowship with believers that are already around us, regardless of which local church body the belong to. Our work schedules are what they are, and again, I question if it is even possible for all Christians to return to the land and rise and lay down with the sun.
Often our work (or school) schedules seem to be at odds with our faith. Some I know who are seeking to do intentional community are seeking to minimize work commitments outside the community. While there might be some opportunity here for creative living, I wonder if we are missing another point scripture makes. Consider the following verses:
"...to aspire to live quietly, to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we directed you, so that you may behave properly toward outsiders and be dependent on no one." 1 Thessalonians 4:11–12
"For even when we were with you, we gave you this command: Anyone unwilling to work should not eat. For we hear that some of you are living in idleness, mere busybodies, not doing any work. Now such persons we command and exhort in the Lord Jesus Christ to do their work quietly and to earn their own living." 2 Thessalonians 3:10–12
"The lazy person does not plow in season;
harvest comes, and there is nothing to be found." Proverbs 20:4
"Give these commands as well, so that they may be above reproach. And whoever does not provide for relatives, and especially for family members, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." 1 Timothy 5:7–8
Now, I am not suggesting that we should not share resources. Verses like Isaiah 58 make it clear that we do not please God unless we care for those in need. However, we should not be quick to look down on an honest day's work, and those who care for their families, raise kids, and look to the needs of the generation to come. Some contemporary authors make it sound like living in the suburbs is a kind of substandard life choice, where if we want to "really" follow Jesus, we must live "radical lives." I am sometimes concerned that in the name of being "radical" some people are forgetting some of the exhortations to attend to the duties alluded to in the above verses? Not all of us can be called out of society for full time ministry. Francis of Assisi recognized this when he started the order of Secular Franciscans.
Getting and education and going about our daily work duties to earn a livelihood is a part of life in this world. It is not in conflict with Biblical teachings, and indeed it can be a means of spiritual growth and humble service, was we practice Christ in our lives.
How We Live and Who We Are vs. What We Do
I am concluding that it is not so much as what we do by how we do it. Are we aware of community opportunities that exist every day in our work, neighborhoods, families, and other associations? Do we live simply, so we have resources to help others and to contribute to the work of the Kingdom of God? Are we putting God first or the narcissistic god of consumerism? Do we find our identity in Christ, and seek to live in the spiritual fellowship of Christ (Eph. 2:21-22)? When viewed in this way, community becomes more easily within our reach!
Act 2, is often read these days in light of home groups. However, much of it was not done within the context of the home, nor does it need to be. Consider this:
- "They devoted themselves to the Apostle's teachings." This is something we can do wherever we are these days. We can study in Church and at home, and even at work. We can study on the Internet, and buy books and download sermons. Scriptures are readily available.
- "And awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles." Community, Bible study, fellowship, and helping the poor are all good things, but this early community was a conduit for the Kingdom of God to break into the world. Amazing things happened through these Holy Spirit empowered believers. Sometimes we get caught up with the busyness of activities, like Martha, and forget to sit a the Lord's feet or to step out "onto the waves" when our Lord calls us to him.
- "...attending the Temple together..." Often when we hear Acts 2 preached it is in the context of small groups and house churches. Yes, they went from house to house, but today I noticed they hung out at the temple. The Acts 2 believers came together at the Temple -- the "mega-synagogue" of Jerusalem.
My point here is to not that we do not have to be critical of the forms in the traditional American Christianity. Large group gatherings, Bible studies, care ministries, formal teaching and preaching, worship, missions -- all are a part of the the fellowship of the saints. We should be thankful and praise God for what we have. The challenge is to find community in the context we find ourselves in this day and age. That is more a matter of who we are and how we live life, than what we do.
Also, my point is that in other places in the world, people may be living more closely to the way they lived in the 1st Century. Poverty and persecution may constrain, but often, it provides a fertile environment for the Church to grow, as it did in the Acts 2. In these cases, spontaneous community very similar to early Christianity is much easier to achieve. Perhaps that is God's gift to them in the midst of their trials. Yet, even today, many of these communities must work this out in the large metropolitan areas of the world, which are influenced by modern economics and distractions.
Conclusion
Our society works against true community. I have no easy answers to solving the problem, though I think the concepts in the Practices identified in this blog will help us find the way. A small number of people can do monastic communities, others might choose some form of limited intentional community, such as has be done by the Anabaptist. Yet, for the vast majority of the followers of Jesus in America, we struggle with finding balance and moderation. We struggle with isolation in the suburbs and the busyness of our lives. We are separated from our fellow church members by distance. Our schedules are consumed with things, like idols, crying out for our time and devotion. Voices call us to be "radical" but often miss the truly radical nature of merely being in Christ, moment by moment as we go about our daily lives.
