To love God by loving others, which includes our neighborly associations, and as Jesus taught us, our enemies. To participate in the fellowship of believers in Christ.
Key Verses: Matt. 5:44; 22:39; John 13:34-35; 17:21; Acts 2:42-47; Eph. 2:17-22; 1 John 4:10-12; Heb. 10:24; 1 John 1:3-4; Isa 62:5
One the surface the practice of community may sound like an outward facing practice where we engage others. However, as I hope to show, Christian community never strays far from our relationship to God and the transformation He is making in us.
What is Christian Community?
The starting place in this discussion is to ask what we mean by "Community?" In my recent post on "Rethinking Community" I explore this. I note that is not so much what we do than how we do it and who we are in the context of community. One point I want to make here is that by "Community" I am not referring to the many general forms of community that we might find in the world, no matter how Utopian their vision. I am specifically speaking of community with a Christian distinctive.
Who is the WE in Community?
The first question is to understand our identity within the context of community. Who is the "WE" in the community? How is our community distinctive? How do we define ourselves? To answer this, I went back to the Bible and found the following key verses.
So he [Christ Jesus] came and proclaimed peace to you who were far off and peace to those who were near; for through him both of us [Jews and Gentiles] have access in one Spirit to the Father. So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are citizens with the saints and also members of the household of God, built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the cornerstone. In him the whole structure is joined together and grows into a holy temple in the Lord; in whom you also are built together spiritually into a dwelling place for God. Ephesians 2:17–22
... we declare to you what we have seen and heard so that you also may have fellowship with us; and truly our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son Jesus Christ. We are writing these things so that our joy may be complete. 1 John 1:3–4
For as a young man marries a young woman,
so shall your builder marry you,
and as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride,
so shall your God rejoice over you. Isaiah 62:5
Here are a few key features of the community described in the above verses:
- It exists in and through Christ Jesus.
- It involves joining previously estranged groups together.
- It is unified by the Holy Spirit of God.
- It is a part of the "household of God."
- It is built on the foundation of the Apostles and Prophets, with Christ as the cornerstone.
- In Christ, the whole structure is joined together.
- It is growing into a holy temple -- a dwelling place for God.
- It includes is Trinitarian in that it is a fellowship with the Father and the Son, through the work of the Holy Spirit.
- We [individual believers] are a part of this spiritual community.
- This community is the Bride of Christ -- God's beloved (cf. Rev 21:9)
Principles for Practicing Christian Community
Now that we have defined the identity of the community, we need to come the the point of this practice -- how do we do community? Here I want to focus on the "how," not the "what." By that, I mean I do not want to get into specific things we do, where we describe what it looks like. Instead, I would like to provide some general principles for practicing Christian community. Christian Community is:
- Loving (John 13:34-35, 1 John 4:10, 1 Cor 13). Love permeates Christian community.
- Sharing (Acts 2:42-47). Resources and lives are shared. We rejoice and celebrate together, and we grieve together.
- Recognizes the Fellowship. We need to recognize the fellowship of believers wherever we find it in all our associations. The important point here is that our lives often connect with other Christians throughout the day. We limit our community by trying to limit ourselves to one group of people within one local church body. The above definition of community includes all professing believers. We need to take the time to consider what God might be doing in bringing us together with the many other believers we come across in our lives.
- Open to "the Other." God is growing the fellowship of believers, and has called us to extend our love to our neighbors and even our enemies. The simple principle is that our community is to be open to those on the outside, not closed. We need to also be open to the diversity within the community, whether it is racial, ethnic, gender, political, or any other type. Christian community is not about being like each other and never disagreeing.
- Practices Hospitality. Here I am saying that we need to be available. We need to be open and available to those in our community and those God brings to our community. We also need to be individually available to others. That is how community starts to happen.
- Practices Abiding Love. Here I am saying that we can practice the principles of Abiding Love within the context of community, as well as in our private devotions. As a community, we can love our God, abide in love, love one another, and in so doing, live is perfected in us, and God dwells in us and us in him. It is something real and experiential.
- Grows Its Individual Members. God is at work in us, transforming us into the image of His Son. The commands to love are not always easy to practice (cf. 1 Cor 13, Matt 16:24-25). As we learn to love one another, love is perfected, even as metal is refined in the fire. We grow as we support each other in our struggles with sin. We grow as we resolve conflicts with each other, and forgive each other. We grow as we develop disciplining relationships. We grow as we pray for each other, and participate in each others' healing and transformation.
- Promotes Unity in Our Diversity. Forgiveness, agape love, redemption, and reconciliation all work together to promote a supernatural unity that testifies to Christ (John 17:21).
- Intentional. By this, I do not mean that we must move into the same house or neighborhood, or join a monastic cloister. Most of us cannot easily do those things. What it does mean is that we must be intentional in our relationships. It means we must be intentional in practicing these principles of community. If we are not, then it will be as if we are hiding the light of God under a basket (Matt 5:14).
- Has a Servant Heart (Mark 9:35). Community is not hierarchical, where the many serve the few. It is not an anarchy where each one seeks what is right in their own eyes. It is a paradoxical organism where the greatest is the least, and where each humbly seeks what is best for others. This is also not a self depreciating thing, because we are each trusting God for our rewards.
What Does Christianity Look Like?
Here is where some of my readers may be hoping that I will give you a list of things to do to make Christian community happen. The truth is, I don't think I can do that. Partly because I have not yet perfected such community, and partly because I think one of the problems in the Church today is where people are too confident in telling others what it looks like to do Community. The Church is too big to be able to provide a single answer to such a question.
One mistake that is frequently made is to universalize our experience for the whole Church. By that I mean we take our experience and assume that what works for us must be applied to everyone else. If we move into the inner city and become a part of some community, then we think that is the best way, and we subtly think others who do it differently may not quite understand what we have discovered. That is universalizing our experience. It is also naive to think that God is limited to working in just one way. A survey of Church history will prove that God seems to delight in doing things differently, never doing things quite the same way more than once.
Please don't take me wrong. I am not saying urban intentional communities, monasticism, or new monasticism, or other such things are misguided. I am just saying that we need to think bigger than those things. The suburbs are full of lost, alienated, lonely, and needy people. God's transforming Kingdom is needed there too! The model for the village in Africa or India will not necessarily work for large cities such as Shanghai or Los Angeles. Neither of those models will likely work for a small town in the Midwest America. We need to let God show us the way, and that way starts with our individual lives -- our sitz im leben, or situation in life.
With this said as a kind of disclaimer, I will say that we should allow the examples of other to speak to us and to perhaps cause us to think beyond the boundaries of the familiar in our lives to see other possibilities. Some will be able to pursue some form of intentional community. However, there is much to be learned from such communities that can be applied in different contexts. This is where the practice of the Sacrament of the Present Moment comes in. We need to let God guide us, moment by moment. Then we will discover the hidden treasures in our life and relationships.
With this in mind, here are some general observations that I have alluded to so far.
- Take the above principles seriously and put them in practice. You will find that opportunities will present themselves.
- Be available, open, and intentional about engaging others.
- Avoid gossip and divisive talk.
- Seek to reconcile broken relationships, and heal offenses. Seek to live the Lord's prayer (Matt. 6:9-15)
- Be intentional about reducing the time we spend in distracting idle activities.
- Re-evaluate our leisure and entertainment activities. Are there opportunities to apply moderation? Are there opportunities to include others?
- Us modern technology to help connect with people you would otherwise not be able to connect with. For example, I have been able to use Skype to have free video conferences with my daughter who is traveling in India, and to talk with a friend living in The Netherlands.
- Promote relational discipleship.
- Open our homes to others in hospitality, or to live with you.
- Become more aware of the associations and relationships that surround you. Who are your coworkers? Who are your neighbors? Ask God to open the door for deeper relationship.
- Promote these principles in your local church fellowship.
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